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10 Things You Can Do Today To Take Control of Your Life

It’s time to Take Control of Your Life!!  There will always be people trying to steal your joy and break your confidence.  Stand tall, know you have the knowledge and fortitude to move forward and do not let your current circumstances dictate your future.  Know you have everything within you to accomplish your vision and turn your dreams into reality. 

Now let’s look at those 10 things you can do today to begin removing issues and/or obstacles obstructing your path, so you can live a happy, abundant life.

1.  STOP Talking and START Living

How many years have you told yourself, I am going to open my own business, take those music lessons, teach math at a university or run a marathon?  What is preventing you from pursuing your dreams?  You know the vision is real.  Quit procrastinating and make an action plan to complete your journey.

2.  No More Excuses

No more excuses!  It’s time to stop talking about it and put action behind those words.  Begin by taking baby steps.  Sometimes we look at the entire project, it overwhelms us, and we give up before we ever got started.  Break the tasks down into easy manageable steps and progress slowly.  As you begin completing each action step you will feel a sense of accomplishment and your confidence will grow.


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3.  Be Consistent and Persistent

A personal goal is only achieved by working consistently and doing the small things every day to move towards your vision.  The most successful people are the individuals who never gave up even in the midst of fiery circumstances.  Stay committed and persistent and watch your vision come to life.

10 Things You Do Today To Take Control of Your Life

If you are not sure where to begin life coaching maybe the perfect solution to get you moving in a forward direction.  Life coaching allows you to make positive changes to achieve your desired results. I believe when you set the foundation for a great life, you make a conscious choice to show up, be seen and live courageously. 

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4.  Do Something That Scares You 

In order to reach your peak performance, you must do something you have never done before.  By taking one small step each day, the fear will slowly diminish and you will gain strength and courage.   By facing your fears you are teaching yourself you can  handle whatever life throws your way.


If you struggle with confidence and self esteem issues, you may be interested in a course I created specifically for individuals who need that extra boost to stay committed and unleash their potential. 

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5.  Reduce Alcohol and Caffeine Consumption

We all know alcohol is used for socializing and caffeine is used to keep us awake and alert.  However, there are individuals who do consume an excessive amount and it can lead to health issues.  

If you are a frequent drinker of alcohol or caffeine, you can experience brain fog.  In order to take back your life and regain some mental clarity, reflect on your consumption and begin by cutting back or moderate your intake.

6.  Take a Break From Social Media and Gadgets

Life can be filled with distractions and obstacles.  With the increase of technical gadgets, games, social media sites, etc… Each one of these interruptions conspire to draw our attention away from what we need to concentrate on.

In fact, our daily social media frenzy routine  is causing us to miss out, without even realizing it.  Our focus is shifted, we start to procrastinate, even though we know the task is important to us. 

Even though social media is a great tool to stay connected with family and friends, don’t make it a full-time job. It’s about taking back your life, relaxing, and having gratitude. 

7.  Keep Your Home and Workspace Organized

Removing the physical clutter around your home and workspace will help you stay focused and bring clarity to your surroundings.    When your space is cluttered your mind becomes cluttered.  

This clutter overwhelms your mind from the extra stimuli and forces the brain to keep focused on the mess around you.  It also signals the brain… that there is always something else needing your attention.  When you begin to de-clutter your space, the mind will follow and you will feel a sense of relief!


If you struggle with confidence and self esteem issues, you may be interested in a course I created specifically for individuals who need that extra boost to stay committed and unleash their potential. 

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8.  Make a Daily “To Do” List 

The most powerful thing you can do to take back your life and manage your time is to create a “To Do” list. You should create this list every day and let it serve as a blueprint for the day.  I truly would be lost without my list. It keeps me on track knowing what I need to accomplish throughout the day. 

A typical “To Do” planner is all you need to stay organized.  Before you begin your day, jot down your tasks, prioritize each item and if you don’t get everything completed that day  – it’s OKAY!!   Turn the page and write it down on tomorrow’s To Do list!  It will all get done in due time.

9.  Exercise To Increase Your Energy Level

Regular exercise is an important part of maintaining a healthy mind and body. It can make you feel energized and motivated helping to boost your confidence and mental strength.  An exercise program doesn’t need to be super complicated to provide meaningful benefits. Even a 30 minute walk, three times a week can significantly help combat depression and improve one’s self-worth.

Do you know research has shown exercise:

  • Elevates our mood
  • Increases our self-esteem
  • Releases those happy hormones
  • Makes us feel good about our physical self
  • Leaves you feeling energized and empowered
  • Provides you with a sense of accomplishment

So, let’s get a simple exercise routine started today!!

10.  Learn To Say “NO”

Learning to say “NO” to things or people who don’t resonate with you can be very empowering.   Taking command of your life means getting honest with yourself about who you hang out with and what activities you participate in.  Engage in those activities and friends who serve your best interests and elevate you as a person.

Remember, you do not have to justify to anyone why you are saying “NO”.  You can respond graciously, “Thank you for asking, maybe next time” or “Let me look at my schedule and I will get back to you”.  Once you start using this technique, it gets easier each time.

You cannot expect to reach your peak unless you are willing to put the time and effort into completing any task.  Taking back your life is important not only emotionally but physically.  Remember to visualize your plan and to think positive thoughts… but if there is no action behind your plan, it will always remain a possibility.  I believe in YOU, but I want YOU to believe in yourself!!


If you struggle with confidence and self esteem issues, you may be interested in a course I created specifically for individuals who need that extra boost to stay committed and unleash their potential. 

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5 Techniques To Discover Your Life’s Purpose and Pursue What Sets Your Soul On Fire

Find Your Passion

What is your life purpose and how do you Find Your Passion?  These type of questions are constantly being asked over and over again.   The answer is right there and resonates from your heart.  The first thing you need to do is ask yourself what is the one thing I absolutely LOVE to do and I do better than anyone else. 

Please don’t make your answer “I just want to help people.”  That is a wonderful gesture and I think it is quite noble of you, however, I want you to probe a little deeper.

Okay, you know you want to help people.  The next question to contemplate is what capacity do you see yourself helping people.  Do you want to help clothe people, feed people, inspire people, coach people?  You see how broad this topic appears.

To determine your life purpose / passion, you need to determine the one thing you do better than anyone else.  Not only are you the master of this craft but you can get paid doing it. If you are not sure where to start, I can always assist you through a life coaching session.

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For example, you may be working as a florist right now but have always dreamed of being a painter.  You used to draw and make sketches as a child but someone kept whispering in your ear, feeding your insecurities and telling you; you could never make a living at this.  You’re not good enough and how are you going to pay your bills being an artist?  Sound familiar?  So who convinced you this was impossible?


If you struggle with confidence and self esteem issues, you may be interested in a course I created specifically for individuals who need that extra boost to stay committed and unleash their potential. 

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I believe people, society and culture have placed certain standards and expectations on us which cause us to question are abilities. Most of these judgments are untrue and can lead is on a path far from our true calling. This ultimately causes unrest in our life and can lead to disappointment and sadness.

Understanding your hidden talents and believing anything is possible can empower you to reach new heights.   Your passion is the one thing you were meant to do to fulfill your life’s purpose and when you are doing your passion it does not feel like work.

You wake up each morning with a smile on your face and eager to begin the day. The excitement is palpable, it radiates from your soul and others want to be around you to absorb your energy and power.
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So Now Let’s Start The Discovery Phase…

Begin by having a brainstorming session with yourself:

  1. Write down your talents in your journal and what you excel at.  It doesn’t matter whether it’s large or small. 
  2. Now ask yourself; If I could get paid to do this one thing, I think I would be living the dream. Whether it’s a chef, nurse, teacher, etc. Make sure it’s something you are GREAT at and have the passion to pursue.
  3. Once you discovered your special talent, it’s time to unlock the door to your dream and begin moving in this direction.  TAKE ACTION!! Do at least one task – everyday – that will move you in a forward direction towards your passion. Yes, I did say everyday!! Even if it is something small – Just do it!
  4. Create an outline with a clear direction of where you are heading without trying to determine what it looks like in advance.
  5. Once your start down this path make sure you follow your heart and listen to your inner guidance.  It is ALWAYS right!  Sometimes it can be the difficult path but I guarantee it will be worth it in the end!

It will take courage, perseverance and patience.  Your journey will have many twists, roadblocks, hills and valleys but I am confident, if the power within you to succeed is greater than the power to fail, you will cultivate your dream and live a life you have always dreamed.

I believe in YOU and I know you have everything within you to succeed. Stay focused and make sure your gifts and talents are a true expression of love and to be of service to mankind.  Wishing you good health, happiness, and recognizing your passion for LIFE!


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5 Ways To Build Your Confidence and Self Esteem

5 Ways To Build Your Confidence and Self Esteem

Build Your Confidence and Soar To New Heights!

If I could point out one challenge my clients face on a daily basis it would be confidence.  In order to build your confidence, you have to work at it each day.  Your confidence muscle is similar to others muscles in your body which means they need to be worked both emotionally and physically.  

It’s like anything in life, if you want to be a great baseball player, pianist or singer it takes practice. You have to work your plan, prepare and be consistent with your training.

For most of us, we tend to be pulled in a thousand different directions and we just don’t have the time to socialize.  We spend so much time on our iPhones and computers, we tend to make more virtual friends instead of real friends.

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Commit To Success


If you are having a difficult time meeting people, engaging with others or just making new friends, let me provide you with 5 Tips you can implement today to build your confidence and ultimately, increase your self-esteem.

5 ways to build your confidence

5 Tips To Build Your Confidence

When you feel good about yourself, you will begin to attract the right people and events, empowering you to achieve success.  So let’s begin:

1.  Body Language

Appear happy and friendly and take notice of your body language.  Your posture should be relaxed and be sure to keep your back straight. This shows people you are comfortable and confident. 

  • Make eye contact – It shows you are trustworthy, honest, and sincere.
  • Lean in – When you’re conversing, leaning forward indicates your are interested and paying attention.
  • Firm Handshake – A weak or limpy handshake indicates low self confidence.  Make a point to shake someone’s hand firmly and with a smile.

2.  Give Genuine Compliments

Compliment others and be genuine.  Giving compliments is a true and tried accolade providing a positive boost not only for the recipient but also for you!!

When you take the time to give a thoughtful, genuine praise to another person it strengthens your confidence and boosts your self-esteem.

The act of giving compliments creates a chain reaction where others will perform selfless acts of kindness… words have the power to change the world.

3.  Active Listening

By being an active listener involves more than just hearing someone talk. When you are paying attention and interested in what a person is saying you are practicing active listening.

Which means you are listening will all your senses and giving your undivided attention to the person with whom you are speaking with.

Why Practice Active Listening?

Active listening allows you to earn the trust of others by offering them support and assistance. You are inevitably redirecting your problems by helping others through their circumstances.

By supporting others you open yourself up to a whole new world. You’re solving problems, seeing different points of view and gaining new perspectives. You will develop patience and tolerance by solving and understanding their situations.

By actively listening your confidence and self-esteem will definitely grow to new levels!

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4.  Stay Positive

Staying positive while your confidence is low can be a very daunting task.  However, there are still many things you can focus on to improve the quality of life enabling you to increase your confidence and self-esteem.   

Remove the Negative Self-Talk.

Start with articulating and acknowledging the thoughts which are weighing you down. The ones that don’t serve any useful purpose beyond keeping you stuck. Release those statements, such as, “I forgive myself for procrastinating” or “It’s okay for me to be angry”.

If you spend less being stressed out for procrastinating, you can redirect the energy into breaking down a project or task into manageable tasks and actually tackling your to-do list.

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5.  Stop Comparing

Stop comparing yourself to other people. Low self-esteem stems from feeling inferior.  Your personal mission is to be better today than you were yesterday.   Part of what makes life awesome and interesting is learning from the talents of others.

Instead of trying to be as good or better than others, focus your energy on being the very best version of yourself.  Remember comparing will always steal your joy and happiness.

But even more than that, it prevents us from fully living our lives. It calls us to envy someone else’s life and seek theirs rather than ours. It robs us of our most precious possession; life itself.

Final Thoughts

Accept where you are – right now!! This may be uncomfortable but do it anyways.  Ask your higher self to guide you and let go of the sadness.  Be BRAVE!  Look around and notice what you have created from low self-confidence…  hard as it may be, it’s necessary in order to move forward.

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About Me

Hi, I am Cheri Schultz, I am a yoga instructor, an entrepreneur, life coach and motivational speaker. My goal is to inspire, encourage and empower individuals to believe anything is possible. I want to make a difference in people’s lives by sharing my story and providing individuals with inspiration, enabling them to increase their confidence and boost their self-esteem.

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