Isn’t it time to reinvent yourself and take control of your life? As you well know, there will always be people trying to steal your joy and break your confidence.
But today, it’s up to YOU to decide whether or not your are going to allow others to dictate how you will act and perform. No more seeking approval and pleasing others.
I want you to stand tall and know you have the knowledge and fortitude to move forward. I do not want you to let your current circumstances dictate your future. You have everything within you to accomplish your vision, your goals and turn your dreams into reality.
So are you ready to get started? Then let’s begin.
If You Struggle With Believing In YOU…
Then may I suggest the follow articles:
- Overcome Obstacle and Aspire To Be More
- Build Courage and Stop Letting Fear Rule Your Life
- Believe In You, Transform Your Limited Beliefs
Be Accountable – Stay Committed Throughout the Process
Let me ask you a few questions before we get started to see if any of these resonate with you.
Have you been delaying or procrastinating lately or maybe your not accomplishing as much as you would like? Are some of your goals or dreams stuck in neutral gear? Well… In order to be happy and reinvent yourself, then stop pushing everything to the back burner. You have to be accountable to yourself first.
It’s not about making excuses or pointing fingers at someone else. You have to look inside and decide are you happy with yourself. If you’re not, then you have to decide what are YOU going to do.
Don’t look towards your spouse, significant other, your boss, co-worker or anyone else.. it’s about deciding what you want to do and then making YOURSELF accountable.
To be accountable you have to stay committed, be present, and be persistent in your quest to achieve you goal. It’s not about using that “Someday phrase” its about doing something today to change your current situation. It’s about creating new positive habits and making those habits a priority.
I am so happy you stopped by to create a Healthier New You!
Right now I am offering a FREE 30 minute “Skyrocket Your Confidence” coaching session.
Imagine creating a life where you overcome insecurities, build a healthy self-esteem level, restore your confidence and ignite your passion.
It’s absolutely Awesome!
✔️ Worry is replaced by optimism
✔️ You have a renewed sense of energy and enthusiasm for life
✔️ You feel motivated about your future
✔️ We will develop a 3 Stage Action Plan
✔️ Uncover hidden challenges that maybe sabotaging your success
✔️ Leave the session with renewed energy to achieve your goals
✔️ Create a Life You Love!
Just email me today and let’s get started!
It’s Okay To Take Risks and Be Fearful
There is an amazing transformation that occurs from overcoming your fears by trying something new. When you begin to step outside your comfort zone and take on a new task, job or assignment and see changes happening, your confidence and self-esteem will automatically increase.
Fear has always been the great enemy of success. More people are held back by fears than any other factor. It is an emotion that overrides our intelligence, stops us from moving towards our goals and impacts the quality of our life.
It’s about taking a risk and stepping outside of your comfort zone. Yes, taking risks can be scary and stressful. We have all faced those moments in our lives where uncertainty played a major role; a career switch, moving to a new home or country, starting college, quitting a job, getting married, a divorce or having a child.
However, it’s necessary to feel a little uncomfortable and take action in order to reach new goals, explore our talents, open our minds to new ideas and opportunities.
It’s not an easy task and it requires a large amount of courage, but isn’t that what life is about… TAKING RISKS!
IF YOU STRUGGLE WITH COMMITMENT:
Check out these posts for tips and tricks to boost your confidence and self-esteem.
- How to Achieve Your Goals, Supersize Your Dreams & Stay Motivated
- 5 Steps to Build Your Confidence and Achieve Your Goals
Love Yourself First
Self-love is about appreciating oneself and it only grows from the actions which support our physical, emotional and spiritual growth. Self-love is dynamic and it forms the most important foundation for relationships and the true connection you have with yourself.
To love yourself is not only a confidence and self-esteem booster, it is a prerequisite in order to love others. You must be willing to meet your needs and realize you are amazing and deserve happiness.
Research has shown when you practice self-love; you are happy with your life, you have greater resilience and higher levels of compassion.
Raising the self-love barometer may take some time, however, I want you to stay committed and support yourself during difficult times.
IF YOU STRUGGLE WITH SELF-LOVE:
Do Your Best and Forget the Rest – Not About Perfection
If not now, when? If you believe in something, go for it. Don’t get bogged down in all the noise. The truth is perfectionism leads to procrastination, and what follows is paralysis. Don’t be slowed down by indecisiveness, just do your best and forget the rest. I want you to double down because experience is only gained through taking action.
Acknowledge Your Effort. It is not always about winning or coming in first place. It’s about the action and effort you take each day to accomplish your tasks. You are amazing and the choices you made were based upon specific circumstances. Each day your slate is wiped clean and tomorrow is another day to make it right.
Trust Yourself. Have confidence in your skills and abilities. Don’t allow outside opinions to affect how your see yourself and don’t allow others to steal your joy.
Keep laser focused on your goals and allow yourself to be your biggest cheerleader. You are more than capable to achieve your heart’s desire.
Be Honest With Yourself and Others. Have Courage
Trusting in yourself, your talents and your abilities is a key factor in staying positive and developing courage and self-love.
When you believe in yourself it means your will succeed in spite of what others think. It means you will not be side tracked or held back by the doubters. It also means you will have unshakeable faith, you will achieve your goals and push through any obstacle or challenge in your path.
Life is about choices and you are the Leader of all your choices. Your are the decision maker, you are the driver and your driving force comes from within you.
Whether or not you act on an opportunity or make a specific choice is a matter of initiative. Forward action, courage, determination and believing in yourself is what will lead you to success.
Be kind to yourself and take it one step at a time and one day at a time. When you empower yourself to take accountability and responsibility, it is a measure of your self-worth which takes strength and courage.
Reinventing and loving yourself is a win-win situation. It provides inner happiness, boosts your confidence, self-esteem and provides peace of mind.
It enables you to make healthier choices and sound decisions across all areas of your life. It also lends itself to rejoice in other people’s good fortune rather than wondering “why, not me.” Ultimately, the more you love yourself, the more you will embrace yourself and the world around you.
Love and Hugs, XO